The Do It Yourself Dilemma:
Balancing Immediate Needs and Long-Term Goals
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Assuming adequate resources,
- Why cook food at home when we can order delicious, healthy, or affordable
food from outside?
- Why bake a cake instead of getting it from a bakery?
- Why maintain a kitchen garden instead of purchasing vegetables from the
market?
- Why maintain your car/bike when you can send it to a mechanic with just a
message?
- Why install your operating system when you can buy off-the-shelf software
that updates automatically?
- Why DIY at all? Or why not DIY?
- Why work when you already have enough in banks or on paper?
The obvious benefits of DIY include:
- Cost-effectiveness
- Customization to suit your needs
- Control over the process & ingredients
However, less apparent benefits are:
- Skill enhancement: Whether it’s cooking at home, changing oil in your bike,
or upgrading software, it fosters personal growth.
- Satisfaction & fulfillment: Overcoming challenges leads to a sense of
accomplishment, fostering a positive outlook on life.
- Inspiration for new generations: By tackling challenges, we motivate younger
minds to explore, experiment, and push boundaries.
Like all things, DIY has a cost paid in time. DIY makes sense when there’s ample
time for learning or when it aligns with long-term goals. Conversely, for
short-term goals, opting for existing solutions at the expense of current
resources is preferred.
This brings us to distinguishing between long-term and short-term goals.
Immediate needs, not wishes, constitute short-term goals. If we possess the
skills to meet these short-term goals, it’s better to do it ourselves;
otherwise, seeking ready-made solutions is preferable.
Reserving difficult and complex problems for the long term is more practical as
they require a learning curve.
- Feeling hungry and having food are immediate needs and short-term goals.
- Desiring consistently healthy food involves a learning curve and is a
long-term goal.
or
- Making investments is a short-term goal as it doesn’t allow time for learning
about various financial instruments. It’s better to pay a financial advisor
for planning.
- Teaching kids to manage their finances well is a long-term goal that begins
with your own financial planning.
or
- Soothing physical discomfort is a short-term goal that requires doctors’
expertise.
- Pursuing improved health constitutes a long-term goal, aligning with every
lifestyle change.
or
- Tasks that lack personal interest but are necessary for dependents represent
short-term goals.
- Initiatives focused on shaping the future for the next generation or society
constitute long-term goals, demanding substantial time investments.
As always, there’s no one-size-fits-all solution, and everything carries a cost.
It’s about finding balance between taking on long-term challenges and leveraging
existing solutions for short-term needs.
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Updated on: 2023-12-25